My ex-boyfriend just got engaged. We are not together for 2 years now but I always somehow thought that we would end up with each other. I knew he was in a relationship but I never thought it's that serious. Now I am really shocked and kind of devastated.
You may find out that your visions are aligned or you may see that one of you wants a “big fat Greek wedding”, whilst the other prefers the “let’s get married alone on the beach”. It’s important to have those visions clear to be able to compare them and to use them during your decision-making process.
We humans are really funny little creatures; when we are in relationships we tend to forget what we really want and need – not only from another person but also from ourselves and from life in general.So we meet a person and we fall in love. Everything is great at the beginning as the “pink glasses mode” is on, but after some time, we start to notice some things that we don’t like.