I have been together with my partner for close to 10 years. It has been a very good relationship so far. We are raising two beautiful children together and in general, we are happy together. I have noticed though that recently I’ve been longing the butterflies and the magic that is there at the beginning when you fall in love.
The love of my life comes from another country. We just got engaged and now we need to decide: where do we marry? The thing is, his family is huge, he has a lot of cousins and uncles and aunts that he constantly keeps in touch with. On my side, the family is way smaller. (He's French, I am Polish, by the way.) And here comes the problem....
Regardless if you are single, in a troubled relationship, or in a happy one that only needs a little bit of an improvement, this exercise can be a blessing to your love life. It will help you to discover what do you really want from a relationship, and to highlight all those little dark areas, that you need to work on.
We humans are really funny little creatures; when we are in relationships we tend to forget what we really want and need – not only from another person but also from ourselves and from life in general.So we meet a person and we fall in love. Everything is great at the beginning as the “pink glasses mode” is on, but after some time, we start to notice some things that we don’t like.