You may find out that your visions are aligned or you may see that one of you wants a “big fat Greek wedding”, whilst the other prefers the “let’s get married alone on the beach”. It’s important to have those visions clear to be able to compare them and to use them during your decision-making process.
We humans are really funny little creatures; when we are in relationships we tend to forget what we really want and need – not only from another person but also from ourselves and from life in general.So we meet a person and we fall in love. Everything is great at the beginning as the “pink glasses mode” is on, but after some time, we start to notice some things that we don’t like.
When we talk about taking such a life altering decision, we should take under consideration two basic elements: the facts (the pros and cons) and the feelings. Jumping out of the-long-distance-ship to jump into finally-living-together-ship is not always an easy task, especially if you can’t agree on the location.