My social life is dead; I ditched most of my friends a long time ago as I spend all my free time working on “You’ve got 5 Options”. I don’t go to the cinema. I don’t read books. I haven’t shaved my legs for weeks. I just got shit scared as I’ve bumped on some girl in my apartment; only after some seconds, I realized that’s my own daughter but she grew so much in the meantime, I hardly recognized her.
One of our readers, who chooses to stay anonymous, asked us how to do it and we have prepared for her – and anyone else who is about to start dating again– 5 Golden Rules for “Getting Back Out There” like a Pro. However, I would strongly encourage you to read the Introduction first – you won’t regret it. And if you do, I’ll buy you a beer or something ;)).
When we talk about taking such a life altering decision, we should take under consideration two basic elements: the facts (the pros and cons) and the feelings. Jumping out of the-long-distance-ship to jump into finally-living-together-ship is not always an easy task, especially if you can’t agree on the location.
Ending a relationship is a skill; a skill that we all have to learn if we plan to have relationships in a first place. A wise man once said: “You learn the most about your partner after the relationship is over” so let’s all strive to be better partners – in our relationships and when they are over.