First of all, we’d like you to be gentle with yourself. You are still very young and you are only getting to know yourself and what you really like and dislike. Only very few of us have a very strong and clear calling from the early days of our lives. A vast majority of us has to try different things out before we figure out what exactly we should be doing with our lives.
When we talk about taking such a life altering decision, we should take under consideration two basic elements: the facts (the pros and cons) and the feelings. Jumping out of the-long-distance-ship to jump into finally-living-together-ship is not always an easy task, especially if you can’t agree on the location.
Ending a relationship is a skill; a skill that we all have to learn if we plan to have relationships in a first place. A wise man once said: “You learn the most about your partner after the relationship is over” so let’s all strive to be better partners – in our relationships and when they are over.