I believe nobody can answer my problem better than you two, so I decided to give it a shot.
The love of my life comes from another country. We just got engaged and now we need to decide: where do we marry?
The thing is, his family is huge, he has a lot of cousins and uncles and aunts that he constantly keeps in touch with. On my side, the family is way smaller. (He's French, I am Polish, by the way.)
And here comes the problem. We think it is impossible to transport his family to Poland for the wedding because it is just a lot of people who would need accommodation (and here comes the money part - I am not sure we can support them all). On the other hand, my Polish family would not afford completely to go anywhere else for the wedding and I don't want to allow getting married without my family being present.
That being said, we totally struggle about the time and the place, because we are unable to gather everyone together. Not even mentioning our international friends, what is another story.
Do you have any tips on how and where to marry an international?